Hi @Mary Stone,
Here a composite image from the [https://cardiagn.com/1998-2002-honda-accord-service-manual-electrical-troubleshooting-manual/|Accord 1998-2002 CF8 CG3 CG5 CG6 with J30A USDM Factory Service Manual] showing the location of the fuel filter.
The image on the left (p.11-88) is from the ''V6 Supplement Fuel and Emissions'' section whilst the middle (p.11-123) and right (p.124) images are from the ''2/4 Dr Fuel and Emissions'' section.
The V6 supplement section dealing with the fuel etc only goes to p.106 yet it says in the diagram on p.11-88 to go to p.123 which is in the 2/4 Dr section, so I assumed that the filter would be in the same location for both.
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Hopefully this is of some help.